What Happens in an Online Therapy Session
Does talking to a screen work? What an online session looks like, privacy basics, and how to prepare — for clients across Ontario.
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You might be wondering: can therapy really work through a screen? If you're someone who values human connection and worries that a virtual session might feel impersonal or watered-down, that concern makes sense. The research on that question is encouraging, and it has honest limits worth knowing.
Researchers have compared online therapy with in-person therapy many times. A 2021 meta-analysis in Clinical Psychology Review, drawing on 43 studies of treatment outcomes, found that treatment delivered over videoconference produced effects that were largely equivalent to in-person treatment, while noting that relatively few of those studies were randomized controlled trials (Batastini and colleagues, 2021).
Other findings worth knowing:
The therapeutic relationship, often called the alliance, matters: a meta-analysis of 295 studies found a consistent link between the strength of the alliance and therapy outcomes, and the link was about the same in internet-based therapy (Flückiger and colleagues, 2018). Whether the alliance forms as strongly online is less settled. A review found that clients rated their bond with the therapist at least as highly in videoconference therapy as in person (Simpson and Reid, 2014), while a 2018 meta-analysis could not show that alliance ratings over videoconference were as strong as in person, even though symptom improvement was not inferior (Norwood and colleagues, 2018).
Online therapy is particularly well-suited for:
Clients who start virtual therapy sometimes mention advantages they hadn't considered:
Let me address the questions that come up in consultations:
"Will my therapist really be able to read me through a screen?"
Yes. Experienced therapists are trained to read facial expressions, tone of voice, body language, and emotional cues — all of which are visible on video. In some ways, the camera view makes these even clearer than sitting across a room.
"What if the technology fails?"
It happens occasionally, and it's never a crisis. If a connection drops, we reconnect or switch to a phone call. At TEO, sessions run on Jane, with Zoom or Google Meet kept as a backup.
"Is it private and secure?"
Sessions run as video calls on the Jane platform, with Zoom or Google Meet as a backup, and our privacy practices follow PIPEDA and BC PIPA. No one sees you enter or leave an office.
"I live alone. What if I get emotional and no one is there?"
Your therapist is right there with you — on screen. We teach grounding techniques before doing deeper work, and we pace sessions with your stability in mind, and we build in time at the end to settle before we finish. Being at home actually allows you to use your own comfort objects, pets, or soothing environment as part of your self-regulation.
British Columbia is a big province. If you live in Vancouver, you have hundreds of therapists within driving distance. But if you're in Campbell River, Prince George, Terrace, or a small community on the Gulf Islands, your options are limited — and finding a therapist trained in trauma therapy or the Gottman Method may be hard locally.
Virtual therapy changes that equation entirely. At TEO Counselling, we serve clients in Nanaimo, Victoria, Vancouver, Surrey, Burnaby, Kelowna, Richmond, Abbotsford, and every community in between — all from the comfort of your home. Our evening and weekend availability means therapy fits into your life, not the other way around.
Whether a plan reimburses virtual sessions depends on its own wording. If your plan covers a Canadian Certified Counsellor (CCC) or Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC), check whether it distinguishes virtual sessions from office-based ones; some older wordings still specify in-person.
At TEO, individual sessions are $150/60-min session and couples sessions are $175/60-min session. A small number of reduced-fee spots are held — if cost is a barrier, mention it during the consultation. We also offer a free initial consultation so you can see whether virtual therapy — and working with us specifically — feels right before committing.
The simplest way to find out whether virtual therapy suits you is to try it. Our free initial consultation is done online — so by the end of that first conversation, you'll already have experienced what a virtual session feels like. No commitment, no pressure. Just a conversation about what's going on and how we might help.
Book a free, no-pressure consultation. We'll talk about what you're going through and figure out together if we're the right fit.
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